If I think there were a Holy Grail to the world of work, something that everyone should aspire to, I’d call it “Presence”. i.e. being totally into it.
As opposed to dragging your feet to the office every morning, just doing busy work, glazing your eyes over during meetings, and hanging out around the water cooler.
Presence doesn’t just happen. You need to give something of yourself first. It’s a giving act and giving acts are acts of love.